Live Your Best Life
I’ll be 40 this year. I know, I can’t believe it myself. I use to say: Yes, Ma’am to those people. My heart tells me I’m younger, but the lines on my face and the amount of energy, tell me otherwise. I’ve been mulling it over for about a year, what to do for my 40th birthday. Something radical? Out of this world? Never been done? I need to scrape together a bucket list, and FAST! I’m gonna be 40 people!
I could jump from a plane, learn a new language. Maybe climb the Himilayas . . . Heck, I’m not even sure how to spell Himilayas.
Then I realized if 39 is anything like 40, it should feel like 38 or 37 for that matter. It’s just a number and I didn’t need a number designating what “Crazy Act” to perform, at least not in the next 30 days. Whether I learn to Salsa Dance or ride a Gondola in Venice, I have lived a great life, full of stories, adventures and friendships.
I don’t need a red convertible or seats to the U.S. Open, to tell me I’ve lived life. Everything I have, (my kids, my family, my hobbies, my friends, my journey in this life) is right where I want it to be.
I don’t need to fly with Virgin Air on their first outer space mission, to know I’ve lived life to its fullest. As I struggled with this concept, (Have I truly embraced all life has to offer? Am I missing out on the excitement that’s out there?) I took a stroll one evening.
As I entered the house from the back porch, I looked through the window and saw my kids running around in the living room, jumping on my husband like a jungle gym; they were so happy, giggling about nothing and everything at the same time; the baby was dragging her blanket in one hand, while holding a baby doll in the other; the dog was barking, trying to get-in on the action; and that’s when I realized, my Bucket List was being checked off the entire time.
While it’s important to integrate some of those crazy “bucket list” adventures into your life, you don’t have to crunch them into a couple of months to prove your youth or vitality.
40 is the new 30. But even if wasn’t, I have happiness, joy and love all around me, and if that’s not a goal to achieve, then what else is there? Embrace today’s moments, and be thankful for all the Goodness in your Life. Here’s to 40 and Beyond!